Planning for the FIRST DATE

Planning for the FIRST DATE

Well you must have heard first impression is the last impression. It’s true especially if you are going on a first date. Remember the famous dialogue of Will Smith in Hitch “First kiss tells a girl everything she needs to know about the relation”. We don’t know about the first Kiss but surely if first date is not good than you are not getting a second chance out here. So here are some key points for you.

1. Location, Location, and Location. I am not trying to sell you anything just telling you the importance of place where you take your gal/guy. Don’t take him or her to a place where it’s hard to find a single human being or where it is too crowded. Just the perfect mix will be better. Where he/she won’t be uncomfortable.

2. Choose Fun activities for two of you. Remember the more fun it is, more he/she will open up. So choose some activities for two you, where both of you will be involved rather than just sitting and watching movie for three hours. (Holding hand is fun in cinema hall but that’s a no no on a first date.)

3. Don't Brag yourself, you don’t have to show off. You don’t have to tell him/her how great you are. Remember she already likes you that’s why she agrees to come on a date with you, now only you have to do is not to mess that up.

4. Talk but mostly listen, don’t sit down there like a dumb person talk to him/her. Talk about likes and dislikes. Talking about hobbies is the best topic and remembers to avoid politics, religion and your ex's all the time (not something to talk on a first date)

5. Be who you are, just don’t change to someone you are not, the first date might be good but not the relation if that’s what you are looking for. So just be calm and enjoy your time.

Now these were the basics rest is still up to you. All the best from my side and don’t forget to tell me how your date went on.